For 2005 Visual Studio (v.8) in the wizard for adding an event handler, I found info at this link
that is not the case with my 2005 VS ?

I'm wondering what I have set that's causing mine not to comply with the line 6, 2nd and 3rd sentences of the above link.

Mine does not show the EDIT CODE in the wizard when there is already an event handler. On mine there is no EDIT CODE, and if there's already a handler for that class, the ADD & EDIT is simply grayed out (disabled). I.e. I have to go hunt it down to find what's already there.