There's open source stuff out there for the Office 2003 feel....check out

http://www.codeproject.com/cs/menu/M...e2003Menus.asp

...theres loads of other articles on this, you should be able to find something you can use.

As far as icons go, there are a few sites that have open source stuff as well...

Think a lot of the XP ones are here...
http://www.vbaccelerator.com/home/Re...cons/index.asp

These are more custom, but are still pretty good!
http://www.fasticon.com/downloads.html