Re: Choice in Grid Control
Have you had a response yet?
Are your grids going to be bound controls?
Here are 3 suggestions:
Objective Grid - http://www.roguewave.com/
There's a new pro version that looks quite promising. I haven't work with this product extensively and only with MFC not VB, but from what I've seen, it's very fast and has a small footprint.
Protoview datatable - http://www.protoview.com/
Unbound mode rocks. Not very intuitive apis, but once you get familiar with the quirks, a pleasure to work with.
Sheridan datawidgets - http://www.shersoft.com/
Multi-threaded datagrid which gave us some headaches. Trying to remove all instances from an app as we speak. Haven't worked with it extensively either.
Re: Choice in Grid Control
Try the VideoSoft FlexGrid control, it gives more functionality than most grids, but is very cheap. It has all the options you specifically requested. You can get it from http://www.videosoft.com