He's not going to go down that easily :) .Quote:
Originally Posted by NoHero
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He's not going to go down that easily :) .Quote:
Originally Posted by NoHero
And I also have no stinking bunnyQuote:
Originally Posted by che_rish
Oh really? :pQuote:
Originally Posted by YourSurrogateGod
Yep :) .Quote:
Originally Posted by wien
Mangy mut :) .Quote:
Originally Posted by souldog
:eeh: .... :eek: ... blasphemer!Quote:
Originally Posted by souldog
:)
Bravo! The rest of you are sheep, I say, SHEEP. Baa! Baa!Quote:
Originally Posted by souldog
Or maybe your lemmings? I need to go take my pills now. :)
I like the bunny!
Me too... It looks cute...Quote:
Originally Posted by gurleygirl
I have missed ya.... did the shopping tour take so long? :)
Shopping is always a priority!!!
Hu.... Of course I will work harder and make overtime so you can by everything you want :wave: :)Quote:
Originally Posted by gurleygirl
You went shopping?! I hope you got the things you need. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by gurleygirl
I only eat bunnies. I don't use them in my signature.Quote:
Originally Posted by cherish
bunny "satay" is tasty...
yummyyy
like this:
Well guys, it's official...
I'm not a hot geek anymore - I'm single again :cry:
Sorry to hear that... :cry: ... What happened?!Quote:
Originally Posted by HanneSThEGreaT
:ehh: What happened to the most beautiful girl from South Africa?Quote:
Originally Posted by HanneSThEGreaT
PS: I hope I do not make a confusion regarding the country...
Howzit guys!
She is still the most beautiful girl from South Africa, don't worry about that - she'll always be beautiful to me.
Honestly, I don't know what happened, or how it happened - I think we just grew apart, or, we were too committed to certain things (she has a baby - me I work late hours).
We didn't even argue or fight before we broke up - it just happened 3 am this morning (after a gig) while talking.
Maybe I'm too old or she's too young..
I'm not angry with her, because we both messed the thing up, and it was a decision by both of us.
I realized that there's more to life than just work, and I learnt so much through this experience, that's why I'll always have a place for her in my life.
We are friends now (but as you probably know, friends eventually grow apart)
Thanx for the interest guys :)
In Afrikaans there is a saying:
Elke pot het sy deksel
it means
for every person there is another person which fits with one another..
And in Austria there is also a saying:
Des Meer wird imma volla Fisch sei...
(The ocean will always be full of fish)
I hope we both understand us with this saying! Keep your head up, live goes on... :wave: ...
And nothing to thank
Wow... you gotta hate relationships that end like that. But if there was something 'not fitting' then it's better to break it off now then later when you feel more committed. My cousin is in a relationship now that he's not totally comfortable with but feels he can't get out of because he's "in too deep". That's not a good place to be!
However, I wish I were so lucky to have one end like that. All of mine have been really ugly. One cheated on me, one yelled at me all the time, another just fell off the face of the planet (turns out he joined the army and didn't feel like telling me)... NoHero watch out. There must be something wrong with me!! :sick:
My thinking is some relationships are really hard so you'll appreciate the really good ones when they come along. :D
MY HERO!!! (or my NoHero?? :confused) :D ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by NoHero
Yes. You are right. But I have also suffered from being to blind of seeing that it does not fit anymore... :sick: ... (@Hannes:) Glad that Johannes (that's your real name isn't it?!) has the sanity to see it.Quote:
Originally Posted by gurleygirl
And by the way: There is nothing wrong with you :)
...shopping for things I need? that's a new concept... ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by che_rish
Nah, I got some clothes for my cousin's bachelorette party in three weeks. We'll be in South Padre: a weekend of bikini's and booze!
If y'all are good, I might have some pics to post. :D
I think you must leave it "your NoHero" because I must find a work first ;) :DQuote:
Originally Posted by gurleygirl
*looking-sweet-like-a-dachshund* :D ... I am always good, ya know?Quote:
Originally Posted by gurleygirl
Really?! :ehh: Sometimes I wonder how can people do things like that... Like "Hey, did I tell you that I accepted this new job in this city, 500 miles away?" Or like that army thing...Quote:
Originally Posted by gurleygirl
Florian is using an inverse logic. NoHero, mean Hero, and Hero means NoHero. Do you get it now? :DQuote:
Originally Posted by gurleygirl
He did! I mean, we were just dating so it's not like I had any say or that the army would call me and said "Uhhh, you know Jerk? Yeah, he's with us now..." His mother hated me so I didn't call her and he lived alone so I couldn't bother a room mate or anything. Just one morning I called his house and got "This phone line has been disconnected..." What a way to break up!!Quote:
Originally Posted by cilu
People have the ability to do stuff like that but some of them have the morals to call first.
But I think that most of those not really that bad. They just miss the courage to tell it the people directly. Or is that too optimistic from me? :)Quote:
Originally Posted by gurleygirl
Hahaha... That's defintly true in some things yes... :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Marius
/Serious: The reason why I have named myself nohero is another ...
I actually agree in some sense, but still, it's common decency to tell a person:Quote:
Originally Posted by NoHero
Sorry, it's not gonna work.
Other wise the other poor person will never know the reason why they split up. Now if you don't know what to fix, you can't fix it... just my opinion :)
When I found out that he left without a word, it was pretty easy to get over. Obviously he wasn't right for me anyway so what's there to fix? That's water under the bridge. He's been gone for years and honestly I don't even know where he is now!!
<Turns up music "And I... I will survive..."> :D
:D :D :D :D :D :DQuote:
Originally Posted by gurleygirl
Please, somebody stop me from laughing...
:thumb:
Whoa! That's a lot of posts! Interesting and funny ones too. Too bad I missed it. But that's alright! :D
Haha. I noticed. I haven't tried one but I heard bunnies are quite tasteful (if cooked right)... right?? :DQuote:
Originally Posted by cilu
Being single doesn't mean you're not a hot geek anymore. But I'm really sorry to hear about that. I liked that saying you mentioned: "Elke pot het sy deksel"... I didnt know Afrikaans have that saying, but I've always thought that way. And like what NoHero said, "the ocean will always be full of fish." You'll never know, one of those fish might be the one that 'fits' you. (I hope that doesnt sound "fishy" :D ). With the things you've learned from it, I think you will. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by HanneSThEGreaT
Yeah... I thought you went shopping for your and NoHero's wedding. :D Do post some pics of that bachelorette party, puhlease?? *bats eyelashes* ... And about that guy who fell off the face of the earth... how dare he!! :mad: Hannes is right, he should at least have had the decency to let you know. He might have been too scared or whatnot, but still... ya know? tsk tsk tsk. Sadly, some people are like that. He clearly showed he's not right for you. But that doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. :) There are other fish in the ocean... one is named Florian, your NoHero. ;) :DQuote:
Originally Posted by gurleygirl
So tell us, what is the reason you have named your self NoHero?Quote:
Originally Posted by NoHero
I don't to sound deadhearted but... He is history... ... Isn't he?Quote:
Originally Posted by gurleygirl
Haha... Sorry for getting g33ky but that reminds of me of the Half Life 1 Mod "Halfquake" where at the beginning nearly 30 enemies are running to you and surrounding you. You have no gun and the programmers are singing in the background ... "uh uh uh uh... Stay alive! Stay alive!..." :DQuote:
Originally Posted by gurleygirl
*blub* ... where is the net or the worm with "gurleygirls" name on it? :)Quote:
Originally Posted by che_rish
To be honest, it is a dark chapter of my past... :thumbd:Quote:
Originally Posted by che_rish
LOL!! :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by NoHero
Ooooh. Scary. :D :p You dont have to tell if you dont want to. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by NoHero
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Originally Posted by NoHero
It was from that time when Florian was hanging with the Sith lords... :DQuote:
Originally Posted by che_rish
No wedding shopping needed... we're going to Vegas! (don't tell NoHero, he doesn't know yet, it's a surprise...) :D
Oh, all three of those guys are long gone. Haven't missed 'em, haven't heard from 'em, chapter closed. I'm not one of those girls that hangs on to "the good times" he screwed up, he's gone. I don't easily forgive.
NoHero is a rehabilitated Sith? Interesting.... ;)
Haha... Yes I brought them the beacon light of UpperAustrian beer and I kicked their a s s e s in Bauernschnapsen and Quake 3. But unfortunately they were to good in Poker. (There were cheating with their force thingeee!!). They always won my full pocket so I decided to leave them.Quote:
Originally Posted by cilu
*turning-on-a-flash-light-and-let-it-shine-from-bottom-into-my-face*Quote:
Originally Posted by che_rish
No one ... absolutley no one ... know's why... but ... but I have named myself NoHero instead of Hero...
:D
/Serious: I won't tell it, and no one know's it except myself
:)Quote:
Originally Posted by gurleygirl
When will you start calling me Florian or Flo? ;) ... When we are in Veg...*holding-my-mouth* ... *whistle-innocently* ... I know nothing... I swear :)Quote:
NoHero is a rehabilitated Sith? Interesting....
So I guess I should keep those pictures secret, right?Quote:
Originally Posted by NoHero
I know. You are afraid of becoming famous. You are afraid you will be corrupted, especially after you saw what happened to Britney... ;)Quote:
I won't tell it, and no one know's it except myself
I'll call you Florian... :)
Personally I prefer Sugar. (It's our little southern term of endearment) :blush:
We'll have to wait on Vegas till you're a little bit older... like... 21
And those Sith Lords NoHero was hanging around with... are they here in CG too? :D
Okay sweety :)Quote:
Originally Posted by gurleygirl
/By the way let's have a party in Austria, there you need only to be 18. Or even 16 if you hold down your alcoholics drinks on beer/must
Works for me!
I've always wanted to see Austria! :)
I would like to see it again. Let's have a big party in Austria this summer... :DQuote:
Originally Posted by gurleygirl
PARTY AT SUGAR'S HOUSE!! (That's Florian aka NoHero to the rest of you)
OK I'm back from my travels to .NET land now so time to join in some harmless fun.
I love Austria. Vienna is my favourite city of all time. Helps if you like classical music as much as I do.
Austrian wine's not too bad either.
Sorry to hear about the break up. Personally I love it when my wife goes away to visit relatives. No moaning about me spending too much time on the computer, no hogging of the TV to watch rubbishy soaps.
After 2 days the house is a mess, so am I after 48 hours worth of binge drinking and I start missing her like mad. Oh well...
Honestly though, you have the rest of your life to have to be with someone all the time - so enjoy the peace and quiet while you can. When it happens it will happen. And bear in mind there's nothing worse than being in a relationship which isn't completely right.
You'll find that once you're into a long term relationship you'll wish you weren't. Until they go away for a while of course. Which was the point about my wife going away. And of course if you're not in a long term relationship you wish you were. You can't win !
Dating is about finding the right person on both sides : if one person (whether it be you or your partner) isn't 100% sure then it's going to crack up sometime. No point blaming one person or the other (unless one is an axe murderer or a serial rapist or something).
Dating is like programming in many ways. In programming if you make a mistake sometimes your compiler tells you instantly. Other times you'll find a GPF or bug in your code. This can rear its ugly head sooner or later but will be found. It's better to find the problem early than later on. Same with dating. Sometimes one or the other people know they've made a mistake. Sometimes the relationship goes on, with the problems only surfacing weeks, months or even years into the future. It's best to find the problems early.
Sometimes the problems are fixable, sometimes they're not. It's all part of the uncertainty and not something anyone can beat themselves up over.
And about the guy who broke up by moving and disconnecting the phone : who knows, maybe he was a secret agent and had to go on a very dangerous mission at the last minute.
Oh and notice no bunny. My wife's allergic to them. :D
Darwen.
OKAY! WOHOO! Let's choose the old farm house then (not the main house): Many room to sleep and have party! WOOHOO!Quote:
Originally Posted by gurleygirl
As long as there's booze, I'm there! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by gurleygirl
Me too!Quote:
Originally Posted by che_rish
Ja... there will be booze... And everybody from CG I know is invited!
1.) You're a geek for comparing programming to relationships (even if it does make sense)Quote:
Originally Posted by darwen
2.) I can't stand being away from my better half! Long term relationship doesn't mean 24/7 together alone. Guys I'm with are usually my best good friends as well so hanging out with them is FUN!! How long have you been married, BTW?
3.) No secret agent... just jerk... I was told later that he wanted to get married and it might have scared him invisible. We weren't together long so I'm guessing he knew I wouldn't agree and that upset him and so he just took off. I don't know... I might never know...