love/marriage affaires

[cilu]

well money is much more important for me than girlfriends,porn,sex,marriage,love etc
and now if I don't have enough money simply I should not get married and look for girl friends.
that was just my belief,it's very logical and right
is there anything wrong?

IMO, yes, that is very wrong, and I don't see it that logical, and I don't understand why it is right. How can you put money above everything and think you won't be able to get married before 50 because of finacial problems? No intention to offend, but this way of thinking is totally wrong. If you will give it a try, you, I am sure, will come to understand that money aren't at all the most important thing in live.

[Deniz]

How many people, when lying in their death bed, say "bring me my bank account statement, I want to look at it one last time" or "bring me my wads of cash, I want to say goodbye"?

People usually say things like "bring me my children (or wife or friends), I want to say goodbye"...

Worship money = you lose. he who dies with the most toys is not the winner.


PS: This topic brought out all the pr0n addicts thought you guys only came out at night when there was a full moon

For anyone with serious problems with porn: www.settingcaptivesfree.com can help. Good luck

[Xeon]

From Cilu to Meh:

How can you put money above everything and think you won't be able to get married before 50 because of finacial problems?

For once, you're right, Cilu pal!
Anyway, I've heard of such statements from guys like Meh countless times already. Just because they've problems with their love life, they keep finding all kinds of excuses. Escapism, they call it.
He|| man, I was like this a very very long time ago......like when I was 15 years old. Give him a pretty girl and see what this guy would say.

Probably his reaction is "WOW, thanks man!!!!!" or "With such a girl, I have no need for money!!!!"
Or maybe "So, this is what I've been missing all these years!" and how about "Love is the most powerful thing in the world!"

Good day,
Xeon.

[mehdi62b]

Give him a pretty girl and see what this guy would say.

getting that pretty girl is not as easy as you are telling,you have to do give manythings and in return it's not clear you get the things you wanted

I saw just girls try to trick men and obtain their live and money(it's because of financial problems which everyone has)

I didn't get anythng from *love* because she just wants my money,my reputation,not myself,this is important for me

when you have money to pay for her everything is okay but when you don't!!!!

not just to me but 85 percent of students really avoid marriage till 40
sometimes money got the most important thing though

every year we have some registrations for marriage assistance at university but no one considers such chilish theaters

these are all the sad facts in my country,

I solved this problem for myself by banning all of such rubbish things but many people have different solutions

sometime I think without a wife or a family I would remain child but there is no choice

when I can have enough money I would decide to get married but if I don't have I don't tend to make a girl disapointed

//PS:I'm a undergratuated student but somtimes I have to think on such problems,I always escaped them but this time I don't know why it's not easy

[Ejaz]

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Well dear, I would say that its not the right way of thinking. Money does matter, but not the most. Honestly, believe me that I understand how you feel, but what I think is that, you were not looking for the right girl(s). By right I mean, you need a surviver girl to marry, not any other girl. And usually surviver girls are not pretty as in the movies or in the shopping malls (places like that). But they turn out to be good choice as a wife.

/ Oh and btw, listen to "In The End" by Linkin Park 3 times a day, once before breakfast, once before going to bed and once after lunch. May be this helps a little

Is this thread hijacked?

[cilu]

I didn't get anythng from *love* because she just wants my money,my reputation,not myself,this is important for me

when you have money to pay for her everything is okay but when you don't!!!!

And you are aware of that and still would want such a girl (I'm not sure at this point I understand what you want). Come one, the world is full of girls, why are you looking for such a girl, who obviously isn't interested in you (or any other person in particular) but for the things you (or other) can provide for her? I would not want to spend a single hour with a girl that "likes" me because I have money.

Is this thread hijacked?

Not sure if hijacked, but yes, we have deviated from the subject. If it turns out that is needed, the thread can eventually be split in two, so that we can discuss these "love affairs" elsewhere.

[Xeon]

From Meh:

not just to me but 85 percent of students really avoid marriage till 40
sometimes money got the most important thing though

This is the source of Iran's declining population and babies.

//PS:I'm a undergratuated student but somtimes I have to think on such problems,I always escaped them but this time I don't know why it's not easy

Your problem has nothing to do with porn. Your problem is that you lack confidence in yourself and just because of one bad experience in the past or something you always saw/hear doesn't mean that all girls are like this.

If you're afraid of rejected/cheated/dumped, you'll end up a lonely old man and die as one. You seriously need counselling. Go to http://members.lovingyou.com now. The ladies there will counsel you for free.

Speaking about LovingYou.com, I've a good mind to recruit the chicks there to join us in this forum. What do u think, Brad? The ladies there are all very friendly and the typical American-housewife type(25 years to 45 years).
Most are from the US. A lot are from Canada and some are from Europe. A few are from Pakistan too and there's some Asians as well. Serious, Brad.......I don't mind, but you need to gimme some bucks as reward. Er-hem.

From MrRee:

legend: mrRee=anti-porn; Xeon=porn supporter(watcher or provider);

A very very cute story, Ree pal. And no......I'm proud to say I'm a porn watcher, provider, supplier and ambassador. I'm totally proud.....and I'm loving it!!!

From Cilu to Meh:

Come one, the world is full of girls, why are you looking for such a girl, who obviously isn't interested in you

Yeah right, Meh. Why Iran? U can always go other countries for girls, right? India is good. Pakistan is another.
Don't tell me, in the ******g world, that you can't find a good girl outta the combined population of these two neighbouring countries. And we're talking about more than 800 million ladies here.

If you really fail, come to Singapore. 50% of the girls here like guys with Caucasian-looking features, so u're in! I'll do all I can to help you too, since you're a good old guy. And by the way, our country has lots of pretty girls too. Now, go to LovingYou.com. They'll give you help there.

Good day,
Xeon.

[Ejaz]

India is good. Pakistan is another.

Just curious, how many times have u visited these countries?

[mehdi62b]

Okay guys,
I just wanted to say marriage is really going to be something impossible for me
really no serious problem with me
I'm a normal man
I just sent negative pulses here very much it was because of reading lessons and some frustration on them and some severe anxiety because of the near features....
//Motherland is the best place

[Xeon]

From Ejaz:

Just curious, how many times have u visited these countries?

Nah, never been to these countries before. But I do know that India has 2 kinds of girls, the white-Indians and black-Indians, if I'm not wrong. The former is the caucasian-looking type while the latter is almost the same, but their skin is darker. And I do know the Taj Mahal's bricks/marble is slowly corroding due to acid rain every now and then.

As for Pakistan, the girls are much like the Indian girls too, and in rural areas, they put lots of vases and pots on their heads while they walk!
On the other hand, Pakistan is a country which is improving technologically day by day. Compared to other Middle East countries, it's one of the richest and most peaceful, and most girls there, especially the young ones, walk around in jeans and that kinda western stuff.

Good day,
Xeon.

[Deniz]

How old are you Xeon?

[Xeon]

From Deniz:

How old are you Xeon?

21 year old, kid. U got a problem with that?

Good day,
Xeon.

[Deniz]

From Deniz:

21 year old, kid. U got a problem with that?

Good day,
Xeon.

Yeah, I got a problem with being called a kid by a 21 year old when I'm 30.

[mehdi62b]

this thread was splitted

when you don't get married you always think you are not something normal

really I'm not interesetd in marriage and wife and familly and childrens
I'm not a stone man..just I'm not intereseted in such things

but everytime when people speak they tell,NO,NO,every one should get married finally,everyone should have a wife,everyone should have a family

I didn't(couldn't) accept them
I'm really not interested to have a family
am I a human?????
I always thought I'm not a human I always have a bad feeling on myself

I really want to be single and independent from everyone,free..I know a wife could increase my problems extremly

does this show I'm made of sones and I'm not a human????

at university,at other places I really don't like to have conversations with girls,because I think I should be independent from them,I behave with them very proudly,everygirl tries to make a bit near,I reject her very disappointedly,because I think it would be another problem for me

I hadn't a close girlfriend yet,and really don't want it

but,I always think there is something wrong with me,and I'm like a stone

I realy dislike a family,a wife,childerens,it's againt our culture

well,you can't impose me being single is something strange but everyone triies that...

what will happen to me if I don't get married,what serious problems and dangers would happen to me,should I leave the society and go to the forests

can somone tell me its not something strange,and many people have such experiments,you can remain like a human without a wife

this has gotten a serious problem for me,I always think I'm not a human because I don't like a family...

well,I'm a human like others without a wife just a bit different...

[cherish]

Well, I don't think there's something wrong in choosing to be single for the rest of your life. If you don't want to, then don't. It is your life, not theirs. Choosing to be single doesn't mean you're not human.

I get a similar reaction from other people when they find out that I'm still single at my age. LOL. I understand they have good intentions in telling me I should have that one person in my life. But what can I do if I just haven't met the right one? It doesn't mean I don't want to be in a relationship. But I don't mind staying single if I don't find the right person for me either. Now is that strange? I dont think so.

I think, there's really nothing wrong if you don't want to have a wife, and/or family of your own. But what is not good is isolating yourself... like not having friends. Having friends from both genders is a good, healthy thing.

//But wait.. are you saying you're not attracted to women? I asked this because you said something about... avoiding them. Wow. Are you attracted to guys then? No need to answer if you don't want to. Peace!