Valentine Thread :D

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Thanks..

I'm Asking

BTW.. the wife and I have been together almost 10 years. 4 years ago she wanted a holiday for valentines week, I took her to the coast. 3 years ago, it was flowers, i had 4 dozen White and Yellow roses delivered to her. 2 years ago, she was on a Fruit diet, I had a Fruit basket madeup with so much fruit, it took two guys to carry.. Last year, we were a bit broke, so it was rented DVD's and popcorn... This year, shes just not hinting at anything, Even when i asked her 'What do you want?' she replied with 'What ever you feel like doing..' This year we not broke but i dont have the savings anymore.. )

PLEASE HELP.....

Hmmm, let me see...

First of all, I think you're a sweet guy. I guess, you do those things because you want to show her how much she means to you, and/or you want to make her happy. That's the important thing. Keep it up.

Depending on how well you know your wife, why not do something that will surprise her. If you're a good cook, try making her favorite dish/dessert, etc. It doesn't have to be expensive or extravagant. In short, a personalized gift (so that she knows its solely intended for her) would be nice.

Try doing something you two haven't tried doing together. Or, instead of going out for dinner, why not make one for her. (If you can't cook that well, maybe buy foods but prepare everything else?). Anyways, these are just suggestions from me. I'm no expert, ofcourse. But this is what I think. Ofcourse, the usual Card and flowers should still be present.

Maybe the other guys here have tips to give too. I for one would like to hear/see what they would do in your situation.