Thanks
Actually i have been to the sites that u mentioned but on netmeeting-zone there is not much help available and google i have already done but no luck.anyways

I have to make netmeeting start and ask for the machine to connect to or maybe pass it the machines ip that i want to connect to and then automatically send a file to that machine and get confirmation or failure notice if possible.The other machine already has the netmeeting software running.

I dont have any idea about the com/atl and stuf and the requirement is urgent.
thanks and take care

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