Hey guys I have an enormous programming problem and I don't know what to do, you must help me to solve it please!!!!!

I have an object of the class CWoman called woman

But when I try to do:

woman.SetWidowText(_T("Happy"));

I get a run time error because its husband has not died yet.

I also have tried this before:

delete (woman.m_husband)

But I get the run time error: "The indicated element cannot be found".

I have entered the debug mode and I have seen that woman.m_husband is in the same memoy address than woman.m_bestfriend.

What can I do? Help me please!